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Most people seem to have a preference for speaking, over listening. This article explains why it’s so important to cut back on speaking and increase the time we spend listening.

Summary

KEY POINTS:
  • Use the 43:57 rule. A study found that the perfect ratio of talking versus listening was 43 per cent to 57 per cent, respectively.
  • Practice attentive listening because most people aren’t that good at it.
  • Asking questions is a great way to learn about the other person and what they want.

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