BLUFBeing too hard on yourself negatively impacts your work output and increases self-criticism and procrastination.
A sensitive striver strives to achieve excellence at all times—an impossible task. They judge themselves harshly, over-analyse, and worry about perceived mistakes.
It is an ineffective and hard habit to break.
Melody Wilding writes that you need to create a physiological distance from self-criticism by giving it a name from a book or movie. This process, called cognitive diffusion, decreases stress, reduces discomfort and increases believability.
Don't concentrate on a specific event; consider the entire performance.
Consider the 'What if?' in a positive context. 'What if this works?' rather than 'What if this fails?'
A sensitive striver needs to revise what they see as a 'win'.
- Overcoming a fear
- Standing up for what you believe is right
- Changing your mindset
- Taking a small step towards a goal
Reflect on the day's highlights and worth noting that maintaining your integrity and your values is one definition of success.
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