Expressions of Forgiveness That Can Trick Even the Forgiver

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Sometimes what looks like forgiveness is actually resentment in disguise. This article explores five subtle behaviours that can undermine true reconciliation—impacting teams, morale, and personal integrity if left unaddressed

Learning Outcomes.

• Identify unhealthy patterns that masquerade as forgiveness in ADF leadership and peer dynamics.
• Understand the role of authentic forgiveness in restoring trust and maintaining cohesion.
• Apply personal reflection strategies to process interpersonal hurt without suppressing or retaliating.